A Nakorn Ratchashima Woman’s Story as a Abused German’s Ex-Wife.
30 June 2011 :: 11:06:37 am [ 6,989 views ]
"Deang", a 38-year-old Thai woman from provinces, told us the sad story of her life with her German ex-husband
She was a farmers daughter who struggled to have a better life and wanted a foreign husband as she saw her neighbors had received big houses and cars from their foreign husbands.
She had just broken up with her drunken ex-husband and wanted a better life of her 14-year-old daughter. So she went to Pattaya to find a foreign husband. She started her first job in Pattaya by being a waitress but she did not make enough money so she became a bar girl and received more money to support her mother and daughter in up-country.
After six months, she met a middle-aged-German man her customer, who told her that he loved her. At first, she did not believe that anyone would fall in love with a bargirl but with her intention to get a foreign husband and her trust in him she accepted him.
After some time her new husband sponsored her trip to Germany. She went there with him for 10 days and returned Thailand to get more money in order to settle down in Germany without considering of warning from her parents and friends.
She agreed to live with him even though even though she did not speak any German Language nor did she have any rights. Her husband scheduled her new job and drove her to hotels and other places and now she was working as an prostitute.
During her difficult times her mother-in-law recommended her to have children with her husband to get love from him and she would be stop working as a prostitute. She believed her and had two children but during her pregnancy her husband claimed that he was not the father of her child forced her to work as a prostitute during her pregnancy.
She returned to Thailand again for her mother’s funeral. She wanted to stop working as a prostitute and decided to stay and work in Thailand with her daughter from her ex-husband. She also asked her husband to send the two children to live with her in Thailand but he he came after her to Thailand and asked her to go back to German. He promised he would make her work as a prostitute anymore. With her love to her husband and concern of her little children she decided to go back to with him.
Due to lack of money she started to work as a prostitue again after going back to German.
Later she found out she had a tumor in her womb. The tumor had to be removed before it turned to cancer. She getting depressed. He husband told her and their two children to go back to Thailand as she could not work as a prostitute any more.
At that time she realized that her husband never loved her and their children. She was just used a prostitute to make money for him. She took her eight and six-year-old daughters to Thailand to stay with her daughter of her ex- husband.
Afther coming back to stay in Thailand shoe found that her ex-husband had cheated on her and had a secret affair with her daughter when she was 14 years old. Nobody knew that he was working as a prostitute
in Germany. Everyone thought that she had a good husband and rich enough to support her mother and daughter in Thailand.
She is on now filing a lawsuit againts her daughter for selling her properties since she gave all properties to her before she knew the secret affair of he daughter and her ex-German husband.
She insisted that she just wanted a better life of her two daughters. She would want her German ex-husband to be involvand, as she did not want her daughters to know her tragic story and the bad behaviour of their father.Tags :
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